What I Learned at Passages of Malibu and Joinfortify.com About Porn Addiction
Note: Candeocan.com is now Joinfortify.com. It’s even better.
Protecting Yourself From All Sources of Porn
I don’t feel a strong need to seek out porn like I did before. I do however need to get a different phone as I forgot that stuff is accessible on it as well and slipped up. It’s a Blackberry and I talked to Verizon and they said there is no way to filter the …
Using a Counterintuitive Approach to Overcome Porn Addiction
Don’t Lock Horns with the Devil Mark Chamberlain, Ph.D. Kevin thought he was addicted to pornography. “I must be. I’ve tried so hard to stop. I’ve worked for the last five years at it, and yet I still can’t kick the habit completely.” When I talked to him about his approach, it sounded like he …
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There is no Magic Pill or Quick Fix
I know how it feels to want a quick way out of addiction. For years I was looking for the end all solution that would make everything all better in a hurry. However, porn addiction is like many other things in life, there is no quick fix or magic pill. I had to write this …
“All or Nothing” Rarely Works with Porn Addiction
One lesson I found very hard to learn as I set out to overcome porn addiction is that most of the time success will come gradually. There are those who appear to drop the addiction and never have the problem again. However, for most people, this is not the case. Most people have to gradually …
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How to Erase all Sexual Thoughts
Ok, so there is no way to erase thoughts other than perhaps amnesia. However, there is a way to not think of certain things, especially lustful things. It’s actually surprisingly simple since you are the master of your mind. I learned this technique from a friend who was struggling with the same thing. He said …
Pornography is a Depressant
You’ve most likely heard that alcohol is a depressant right? Well, so is pornography and masturbation. What do I mean? If you haven’t already experienced this then you will eventually if you are addicted to either porn or masturbation. There’s the excitement and then there are the low feelings of lack of self control that …