Comments for Porn Addiction Help http://newlifehabits.com Wed, 23 Mar 2011 07:57:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on How to Stop Masturbation Addiction by Matt http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30074 Matt Wed, 23 Mar 2011 07:57:44 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30074 Thank you so much for spending the time to write this article I am 15 and I have been masturbating for over 2 years, I have countlessly tried too drop the habit but it never worked, I always felt dissapointed with myself and sad that I couldn't stop, thank you also too all the amazing people that left comments, it helped me realize what I was doing to myself and that I am not alone. I am quiting today for good, thank you so much :) Thank you so much for spending the time to write this article I am 15 and I have been masturbating for over 2 years, I have countlessly tried too drop the habit but it never worked, I always felt dissapointed with myself and sad that I couldn’t stop, thank you also too all the amazing people that left comments, it helped me realize what I was doing to myself and that I am not alone. I am quiting today for good, thank you so much :)

]]> Comment on Masturbation Addiction Explained by Shaun http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/07/masturbation-addiction-explained/comment-page-1/#comment-30072 Shaun Tue, 22 Mar 2011 12:02:10 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/07/masturbation-addiction-explained/#comment-30072 I started masturbating when i was in my Second year of University, bachelors Degree. I was a performer, intelligent, smart generally passing my exams with A+ atleast A- but passing well since first year. I wasn't so much into gals but books. One evening after my assignments, i decided to check a pornography site. I could wait when my room goes to play football and could visit all pornography sites. After a week, i started fondling my private parts, this how it all started. I could masturbate almost every evening after watching pornography. I grew thin, i got weak, i no longer wanted to go for lectures but watch pornography and masturbate. My parents started wondering about my health. Indeed my mum was inquisitive, was taken for medical check for any diseases but was normal. Of course she wanted to know what happened to me even when i kept telling her i was ok. My grades dropped from a first class Degree to a second class degree. I struggled completing my bachelors Degree. I had poor vision, my back was always paining, my skin was all ashy. This is a bad act, through out my University life i never dated any girl, however much they came to my room to catch movies with me. i was less attracted to them. I never cared, little i didn't know was digging my own grave. Luckily i got a part time job, i could take breaks to masturbate, i was always late at work because my body was always drained, i could not perform my job well. Thank God, i saved some money, and so got a scholarship too study masters Degree in Engineering. I have been here for roughly half a year, i have not passed any courses so far, i only pass projects and practicals. My vision is poor, i have poor time management, am so weak, i have a poor memory. I have no girlfriend, my world is crumbling because of masturbation. I have tried quitting, i ran for about seven days without it and the cycle continues. My family has a lot of expectations from me. I feel so bad. Guys i have everything it takes ti succeed in life. Am pursuing an amazing Engineering program. I don't what to do. Masturbation is the worst addiction you can ever encounter in life. I have a lot of damn gross selfish thoughts. I have tried everything possible, i have no friends, i hate associations especially in a foreign land. Otherwise am so well behaved a guy, my hygiene is great, am not alcoholic nor drunkard. It's too much than i can take, am from a strong christian family. Its too bad, am worried of losing my program at University. Am not determined anymore, selfish, i never care anymore about anything. Someone help me out of this damn boat. I hate running after gals again. My health is so bad, am so weak with my muscles. I need yo help!. Again somebody please help. This article i have read is so great. Let me start with day one (TODAY). I have not talked to anyone, Hope i overcome this addiction. I started masturbating when i was in my Second year of University, bachelors Degree. I was a performer, intelligent, smart generally passing my exams with A+ atleast A- but passing well since first year.

I wasn’t so much into gals but books. One evening after my assignments, i decided to check a pornography site. I could wait when my room goes to play football and could visit all pornography sites. After a week, i started fondling my private parts, this how it all started. I could masturbate almost every evening after watching pornography. I grew thin, i got weak, i no longer wanted to go for lectures but watch pornography and masturbate. My parents started wondering about my health. Indeed my mum was inquisitive, was taken for medical check for any diseases but was normal. Of course she wanted to know what happened to me even when i kept telling her i was ok. My grades dropped from a first class Degree to a second class degree. I struggled completing my bachelors Degree. I had poor vision, my back was always paining, my skin was all ashy. This is a bad act, through out my University life i never dated any girl, however much they came to my room to catch movies with me. i was less attracted to them. I never cared, little i didn’t know was digging my own grave.
Luckily i got a part time job, i could take breaks to masturbate, i was always late at work because my body was always drained, i could not perform my job well. Thank God, i saved some money, and so got a scholarship too study masters Degree in Engineering. I have been here for roughly half a year, i have not passed any courses so far, i only pass projects and practicals. My vision is poor, i have poor time management, am so weak, i have a poor memory. I have no girlfriend, my world is crumbling because of masturbation. I have tried quitting, i ran for about seven days without it and the cycle continues. My family has a lot of expectations from me. I feel so bad. Guys i have everything it takes ti succeed in life. Am pursuing an amazing Engineering program. I don’t what to do. Masturbation is the worst addiction you can ever encounter in life. I have a lot of damn gross selfish thoughts. I have tried everything possible, i have no friends, i hate associations especially in a foreign land. Otherwise am so well behaved a guy, my hygiene is great, am not alcoholic nor drunkard. It’s too much than i can take, am from a strong christian family. Its too bad, am worried of losing my program at University. Am not determined anymore, selfish, i never care anymore about anything. Someone help me out of this damn boat. I hate running after gals again. My health is so bad, am so weak with my muscles. I need yo help!. Again somebody please help. This article i have read is so great. Let me start with day one (TODAY). I have not talked to anyone, Hope i overcome this addiction.

]]> Comment on Masturbation Addiction Explained by Shaun http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/07/masturbation-addiction-explained/comment-page-1/#comment-30071 Shaun Tue, 22 Mar 2011 11:56:07 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/07/masturbation-addiction-explained/#comment-30071 I started masturbating when i was in my Second year of University, bachelors Degree. I was a performer, intelligent, smart generally passing my exams with A+ atleast A- but passing well since first year. I wasn't so much into gals but books. One evening after my assignments, i decided to check a pornography site. I could wait when my room goes to play football and could visit all pornography sites. After a week, i started fondling my private parts, this how it all started. I could masturbate almost every evening after watching pornography. I grew thin, i got weak, i no longer wanted to go for lectures but watch pornography and masturbate. My parents started wondering about my health. Indeed my mum was inquisitive, was taken for medical check for any diseases but was normal. Of course she wanted to know what happened to me even when i kept telling her i was ok. My grades dropped from a first class Degree to a second class degree. I struggled completing my bachelors Degree. I had poor vision, my back was always paining, my skin was all ashy. This is a bad act, through out my University life i never dated any girl, however much they came to my room to catch movies with me. i was less attracted to them. I never cared, little i didn't know was digging my own grave. Luckily i got a part time job, i could take breaks to masturbate, i was always late at work because my body was always drained, i could not perform my job well. Thank God, i saved some money, and so got a scholarship too study masters Degree in Engineering. I have been here for roughly half a year, i have not passed any courses so far, i only pass projects and practicals. My vision is poor, i have poor time management, am so weak, i have a poor memory. I have no girlfriend, my world is crumbling because of masturbation. I have tried quitting, i ran for about seven days without it and the cycle continues. My family has a lot of expectations from me. I feel so bad. Guys i have everything it takes ti succeed in life. Am pursuing an amazing Engineering program. I don't what to do. Masturbation is the worst addiction you can ever encounter in life. I have a lot of damn gross selfish thoughts. I have tried everything possible, i have no friends, i hate associations especially in a foreign land. Otherwise am so well behaved a guy, my hygiene is great, am not alcoholic nor drunkard. It's too much than i can take, am from a strong christian family. Its too bad, am worried of losing my program at University. Am not determined anymore, selfish, i never care anymore about anything. Someone help me out of this damn boat. I hate running after gals again. My health is so bad, am so weak with my muscles. I need yo help!. Again somebody please hellppp. This article i have read is so great. Let me start with day one (TODAY). I have not talked to anyone, Hope i overcome this addiction. I started masturbating when i was in my Second year of University, bachelors Degree. I was a performer, intelligent, smart generally passing my exams with A+ atleast A- but passing well since first year.

I wasn’t so much into gals but books. One evening after my assignments, i decided to check a pornography site. I could wait when my room goes to play football and could visit all pornography sites. After a week, i started fondling my private parts, this how it all started. I could masturbate almost every evening after watching pornography. I grew thin, i got weak, i no longer wanted to go for lectures but watch pornography and masturbate. My parents started wondering about my health. Indeed my mum was inquisitive, was taken for medical check for any diseases but was normal. Of course she wanted to know what happened to me even when i kept telling her i was ok. My grades dropped from a first class Degree to a second class degree. I struggled completing my bachelors Degree. I had poor vision, my back was always paining, my skin was all ashy. This is a bad act, through out my University life i never dated any girl, however much they came to my room to catch movies with me. i was less attracted to them. I never cared, little i didn’t know was digging my own grave.
Luckily i got a part time job, i could take breaks to masturbate, i was always late at work because my body was always drained, i could not perform my job well. Thank God, i saved some money, and so got a scholarship too study masters Degree in Engineering. I have been here for roughly half a year, i have not passed any courses so far, i only pass projects and practicals. My vision is poor, i have poor time management, am so weak, i have a poor memory. I have no girlfriend, my world is crumbling because of masturbation. I have tried quitting, i ran for about seven days without it and the cycle continues. My family has a lot of expectations from me. I feel so bad. Guys i have everything it takes ti succeed in life. Am pursuing an amazing Engineering program. I don’t what to do. Masturbation is the worst addiction you can ever encounter in life. I have a lot of damn gross selfish thoughts. I have tried everything possible, i have no friends, i hate associations especially in a foreign land. Otherwise am so well behaved a guy, my hygiene is great, am not alcoholic nor drunkard. It’s too much than i can take, am from a strong christian family. Its too bad, am worried of losing my program at University. Am not determined anymore, selfish, i never care anymore about anything. Someone help me out of this damn boat. I hate running after gals again. My health is so bad, am so weak with my muscles. I need yo help!. Again somebody please hellppp. This article i have read is so great. Let me start with day one (TODAY). I have not talked to anyone, Hope i overcome this addiction.

]]> Comment on How to Erase all Sexual Thoughts by daughter of Christ http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30067 daughter of Christ Sat, 19 Mar 2011 09:31:33 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30067 I am a girl, who also struggles with the same thing. I am also quite young, just 16 years of age. When I look now, and into the future, I see myself corrupt, and weak for surrending myself to such thoughts. But I have also learnt that it won't end there. There must be a reason, why God has still kept me alive, after all we can die anytime, as time is unkown in the future, it is not set in stone. So from taking this is, I was able to understand, that God is calling me to him, away from corruptness, I will definitely be able to conquer anything with him on my side. I refuse to make an excuse for my actions, no matter what past I may have had, because I am mad, because I knew God so well, and he was protecting me, but I rejected this, and gave myself up to these thoughts. It is all about will power, sure it is not simple take it from me a weak person, but strong with God. This is but a journey. I know that this is something I shall conquer, because the battle is not for me to be rid of these thoughts becuase it doesn't feel right, but the battle is for me to make sure nothing comes in between my self and my relationship with God. The least I can do with my life is follow him, and give him the chance to get to me. Sure I'd love to have my own family one day, and many other things. But I know that all I should do is focus on my relationship with my heavenly Father Jesus Christ, because it is all in his hands, that is why we all get these thoughts, because we forget to rely on God. Sometimes, these thoughts come also, because we simply go astray when bad things happen to us, or simply are just tempted. BUT NEVER SHOULD WE FEEL ASHAMED OF OURSLVLES EVER, NEITHER SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY. This is because we are created in God's image. We are his children, don't forget that, know matter what age or gender we are all his children. Guilt is not good, because that is what brings us down not only in just surrending to these bad thoughts, but also we fall in many other things such as emotions etc. But it is good to recognise your mistkaes, and have the desire to fix them, or learn from them, because the fact that we are all alive now is amazing. Jesus new that it would be tought for us and he warned us to be prepared, so never be afraid, because all we need to do now is simply push forwards, and fight. Even the saints struggled witht the same things as us, notice that in their stories it tends to say that they struggled to heaven. Everybody has their weaknesses and obstacles to fight against, never forget that. I know it is so hard, all I use to have in my head were just bad, dirty sexual thoughts. I don't need to say why because know matter what, I did have the choice to say NO!!! to these thoughts, but I didn't which is why I do feel quite ashamed, but I have a learnt that this won't help, if I really have the will be rid of these thoughts, I must act. I am a girl, who also struggles with the same thing. I am also quite young, just 16 years of age. When I look now, and into the future, I see myself corrupt, and weak for surrending myself to such thoughts. But I have also learnt that it won’t end there. There must be a reason, why God has still kept me alive, after all we can die anytime, as time is unkown in the future, it is not set in stone. So from taking this is, I was able to understand, that God is calling me to him, away from corruptness, I will definitely be able to conquer anything with him on my side. I refuse to make an excuse for my actions, no matter what past I may have had, because I am mad, because I knew God so well, and he was protecting me, but I rejected this, and gave myself up to these thoughts. It is all about will power, sure it is not simple take it from me a weak person, but strong with God. This is but a journey. I know that this is something I shall conquer, because the battle is not for me to be rid of these thoughts becuase it doesn’t feel right, but the battle is for me to make sure nothing comes in between my self and my relationship with God. The least I can do with my life is follow him, and give him the chance to get to me. Sure I’d love to have my own family one day, and many other things. But I know that all I should do is focus on my relationship with my heavenly Father Jesus Christ, because it is all in his hands, that is why we all get these thoughts, because we forget to rely on God. Sometimes, these thoughts come also, because we simply go astray when bad things happen to us, or simply are just tempted. BUT NEVER SHOULD WE FEEL ASHAMED OF OURSLVLES EVER, NEITHER SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY. This is because we are created in God’s image. We are his children, don’t forget that, know matter what age or gender we are all his children. Guilt is not good, because that is what brings us down not only in just surrending to these bad thoughts, but also we fall in many other things such as emotions etc. But it is good to recognise your mistkaes, and have the desire to fix them, or learn from them, because the fact that we are all alive now is amazing. Jesus new that it would be tought for us and he warned us to be prepared, so never be afraid, because all we need to do now is simply push forwards, and fight. Even the saints struggled witht the same things as us, notice that in their stories it tends to say that they struggled to heaven. Everybody has their weaknesses and obstacles to fight against, never forget that. I know it is so hard, all I use to have in my head were just bad, dirty sexual thoughts. I don’t need to say why because know matter what, I did have the choice to say NO!!! to these thoughts, but I didn’t which is why I do feel quite ashamed, but I have a learnt that this won’t help, if I really have the will be rid of these thoughts, I must act.

]]> Comment on The Psychological Power of Negative and Positive Associations by Nikhil http://newlifehabits.com/2007/09/13/the-psychological-power-of-negative-and-positive-associations/comment-page-1/#comment-30061 Nikhil Sun, 13 Mar 2011 21:29:20 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/09/13/the-psychological-power-of-negative-and-positive-associations/#comment-30061 wonderful article .. its really a big help to me.. thanx wonderful article .. its really a big help to me.. thanx

]]> Comment on How to Erase all Sexual Thoughts by Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30050 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:52:03 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30050 i am having a really hard time, it seems every time i go on the computer i find myself searching up bad pics, i will ask god to help me because i cant do it alone, i read that if you preoccupy your mind with like hockey or some hobbies it helps, but whenever i am on the computer i just cant stop myself i feel so ashamed and guilty i am having a really hard time, it seems every time i go on the computer i find myself searching up bad pics, i will ask god to help me because i cant do it alone, i read that if you preoccupy your mind with like hockey or some hobbies it helps, but whenever i am on the computer i just cant stop myself i feel so ashamed and guilty

]]> Comment on How to Erase all Sexual Thoughts by Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30049 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:48:53 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30049 i keep going back to look at bad pictures whenever i go on the computer and i just cant stop myself i will try to do what you said worked but i am having a really hard time :( i feel so ashamed and guilty right now :( i will say this though it feels good that i am not the only one battling porn i keep going back to look at bad pictures whenever i go on the computer and i just cant stop myself i will try to do what you said worked but i am having a really hard time :( i feel so ashamed and guilty right now :( i will say this though it feels good that i am not the only one battling porn

]]> Comment on How to Erase all Sexual Thoughts by Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30048 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:45:21 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30048 i keep going back to porn, i cant stop i dont want to look at those pictures but whenever i go on the computer i just do :( i will work hard and try to follow the steps you outlined but i am just having a hard time :( i feel so ashamed i keep going back to porn, i cant stop i dont want to look at those pictures but whenever i go on the computer i just do :( i will work hard and try to follow the steps you outlined but i am just having a hard time :( i feel so ashamed

]]> Comment on How to Overcome Internet Pornography Addiction by Ogra http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/10/how-to-overcome-internet-pornography-addiction/comment-page-2/#comment-30047 Ogra Thu, 03 Mar 2011 21:53:36 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/10/how-to-overcome-internet-pornography-addiction/#comment-30047 I am finding that my addiction to porn is gradually spiraling out of control. I can spend literally hours looking through the crap without masturbation. Very little of it arouses me and some disgusts me. I find that there are only certain clips that I like, often because I find the models within them attractive. It's little more than a substitute for the real affection I want to show and the real pleasure I would like to give in a proper full, in my case heterosexual relationship. I also have deep feelings of failure and inadequacy. I have no job and have suffered from OCD for years. I also feel that I am too old to start thinking about relationships, something which in view of my poor mental health might not be a good idea to begin with. I am not a great looking guy, something which I am constantly reminded of when I go out even by total strangers who comment on how morphologicaly challenged I am. The distaste and animosity I attract I wouldn't wish on some of our worst criminals. My appearance has led to outright rejection by peer groups over the years and even criticism from my own family. I use porn as a means of accessing something I can never have, when viewing the porn, I often imagine myself in the place of the participants as either male or female. My past sexual experiences have been almost exclusively homosexual, but I find that as I am getting older my interests are becoming increasingly heterosexual, very strongly so. When I seek help, all I get is the usual rubbish about denial of my gayness rather than accepting that I no longer have the homosexual preferences that I expressed in the past. I find the ideas of rape and incest totaly disgusting and have never sought to download images of this nature, even if they are mostly simulated. Sometimes porn represents things I certainly wouldn't want and have no desire to download. I'm pretty disgusting anyway and would like to change, but the last thing I need is religion. I am having considerable difficulty marrying my life experience with a warm and compasionate personal god. I am looking for a scientific and materialistic approach to my problem. I appreciate now that I am far from unique as far as this problem is concerned. I am finding that my addiction to porn is gradually spiraling out of control. I can spend literally hours looking through the crap without masturbation. Very little of it arouses me and some disgusts me. I find that there are only certain clips that I like, often because I find the models within them attractive. It’s little more than a substitute for the real affection I want to show and the real pleasure I would like to give in a proper full, in my case heterosexual relationship. I also have deep feelings of failure and inadequacy. I have no job and have suffered from OCD for years. I also feel that I am too old to start thinking about relationships, something which in view of my poor mental health might not be a good idea to begin with. I am not a great looking guy, something which I am constantly reminded of when I go out even by total strangers who comment on how morphologicaly challenged I am. The distaste and animosity I attract I wouldn’t wish on some of our worst criminals. My appearance has led to outright rejection by peer groups over the years and even criticism from my own family. I use porn as a means of accessing something I can never have, when viewing the porn, I often imagine myself in the place of the participants as either male or female. My past sexual experiences have been almost exclusively homosexual, but I find that as I am getting older my interests are becoming increasingly heterosexual, very strongly so. When I seek help, all I get is the usual rubbish about denial of my gayness rather than accepting that I no longer have the homosexual preferences that I expressed in the past. I find the ideas of rape and incest totaly disgusting and have never sought to download images of this nature, even if they are mostly simulated. Sometimes porn represents things I certainly wouldn’t want and have no desire to download. I’m pretty disgusting anyway and would like to change, but the last thing I need is religion. I am having considerable difficulty marrying my life experience with a warm and compasionate personal god. I am looking for a scientific and materialistic approach to my problem. I appreciate now that I am far from unique as far as this problem is concerned.

]]> Comment on How to Stop Masturbation Addiction by Chris http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30045 Chris Wed, 02 Mar 2011 16:38:52 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30045 Thank you so much for posting this. I'm an 18 year old who has struggled with this for 7 years and I'm getting sick of it. I have tried many ways to kick this habit and I've gotten close but always end up returning to its filth. This was very inspiring and told me a lot that I didn't know. It is also very comforting that I am not alone. Thank you all for posting your comments and good luck to all who are working towards this common goal we all have. Thank you! Thank you so much for posting this. I’m an 18 year old who has struggled with this for 7 years and I’m getting sick of it. I have tried many ways to kick this habit and I’ve gotten close but always end up returning to its filth. This was very inspiring and told me a lot that I didn’t know. It is also very comforting that I am not alone. Thank you all for posting your comments and good luck to all who are working towards this common goal we all have. Thank you!

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