Comments on: How to Erase all Sexual Thoughts http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/ Fri, 27 Apr 2012 20:54:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Eric http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30677 Eric Wed, 21 Mar 2012 07:17:22 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30677 All thing work for the good of those who love god and that god will use our weaknessess to make us stronger. Keep your faith in God and never lose hope. Always remember that God is there and he is there for you.I will be praying for all of you. Be strong.Cant offer any advice but always depend on God Your brother in Christ, Eric All thing work for the good of those who love god and that god will use our weaknessess to make us stronger. Keep your faith in God and never lose hope. Always remember that God is there and he is there for you.I will be praying for all of you. Be strong.Cant offer any advice but always depend on God

Your brother in Christ,
Eric

]]> By: not the only addict here..thank god http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30642 not the only addict here..thank god Mon, 05 Mar 2012 04:27:36 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30642 Reading all your posts brings me comfort. I have been struggling with porn addiction, masterbation addiction and a lingerie fetish since I was 13 years old. I am now 33. I have no way of knowing how much money and pain this addiction has cost me. Between, buying porn, signing up for pay sites, buying huge collections of lingerie only to destroy them, strippers, and my latest vice.... Cam girls, I have spent a small fortune. I have to be into tens of thousands of dollars, this makes me sick. It is no longer the images for me that are the addiction, its the escape into a world where I control what happens next. (My release). I have lied and am still lying to everyone who is important to me. It has caused me the loss of a marriage, (by not allowing myself to be completely open with her, I pushed her into the arms of another man). I am letting this cycle continue, and if I do, the same thing will happen again. You can only lie so much before you start getting caught. I lead a very normal life, but when I am alone, my mind always wonders to this. Up until this very moment, ( I was looking at porn before visiting this site). I have not had the strength to. Avoid temptation. This is a horrible addiction. I am going to seek the help of the lord and the knowledge of this website and I will prevail. I will get my life back, or should I say I will find life, as this has been my life for 20 years. It is time to find a new one Reading all your posts brings me comfort. I have been struggling with porn addiction, masterbation addiction and a lingerie fetish since I was 13 years old. I am now 33. I have no way of knowing how much money and pain this addiction has cost me. Between, buying porn, signing up for pay sites, buying huge collections of lingerie only to destroy them, strippers, and my latest vice…. Cam girls, I have spent a small fortune. I have to be into tens of thousands of dollars, this makes me sick. It is no longer the images for me that are the addiction, its the escape into a world where I control what happens next. (My release).

I have lied and am still lying to everyone who is important to me. It has caused me the loss of a marriage, (by not allowing myself to be completely open with her, I pushed her into the arms of another man). I am letting this cycle continue, and if I do, the same thing will happen again. You can only lie so much before you start getting caught.
I lead a very normal life, but when I am alone, my mind always wonders to this. Up until this very moment, ( I was looking at porn before visiting this site). I have not had the strength to. Avoid temptation.
This is a horrible addiction. I am going to seek the help of the lord and the knowledge of this website and I will prevail. I will get my life back, or should I say I will find life, as this has been my life for 20 years. It is time to find a new one

]]> By: Recovering Addict http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30637 Recovering Addict Sat, 03 Mar 2012 06:11:19 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30637 It was just wonderful to find this useful and resourceful site!!! I too have been struggling against porn addiction for a long time. I found these pages providing knowledge I agree with. It has been an eternal struggle against addiction before I realized that my struggle was in itself sustaining my addiction. It was a struggle devoid of optimistic belief in my capacity to recover. I thank you sharing and further strengthening my knowledge I arrived at after a long long time. I am well aware about my vulnerability and I wish to be in positive active activity against addiction, weather it be sharing with other addicts of learning more from others like me. Thank you. It was just wonderful to find this useful and resourceful site!!! I too have been struggling against porn addiction for a long time. I found these pages providing knowledge I agree with. It has been an eternal struggle against addiction before I realized that my struggle was in itself sustaining my addiction. It was a struggle devoid of optimistic belief in my capacity to recover. I thank you sharing and further strengthening my knowledge I arrived at after a long long time. I am well aware about my vulnerability and I wish to be in positive active activity against addiction, weather it be sharing with other addicts of learning more from others like me. Thank you.

]]> By: daughter of Christ http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30067 daughter of Christ Sat, 19 Mar 2011 09:31:33 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30067 I am a girl, who also struggles with the same thing. I am also quite young, just 16 years of age. When I look now, and into the future, I see myself corrupt, and weak for surrending myself to such thoughts. But I have also learnt that it won't end there. There must be a reason, why God has still kept me alive, after all we can die anytime, as time is unkown in the future, it is not set in stone. So from taking this is, I was able to understand, that God is calling me to him, away from corruptness, I will definitely be able to conquer anything with him on my side. I refuse to make an excuse for my actions, no matter what past I may have had, because I am mad, because I knew God so well, and he was protecting me, but I rejected this, and gave myself up to these thoughts. It is all about will power, sure it is not simple take it from me a weak person, but strong with God. This is but a journey. I know that this is something I shall conquer, because the battle is not for me to be rid of these thoughts becuase it doesn't feel right, but the battle is for me to make sure nothing comes in between my self and my relationship with God. The least I can do with my life is follow him, and give him the chance to get to me. Sure I'd love to have my own family one day, and many other things. But I know that all I should do is focus on my relationship with my heavenly Father Jesus Christ, because it is all in his hands, that is why we all get these thoughts, because we forget to rely on God. Sometimes, these thoughts come also, because we simply go astray when bad things happen to us, or simply are just tempted. BUT NEVER SHOULD WE FEEL ASHAMED OF OURSLVLES EVER, NEITHER SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY. This is because we are created in God's image. We are his children, don't forget that, know matter what age or gender we are all his children. Guilt is not good, because that is what brings us down not only in just surrending to these bad thoughts, but also we fall in many other things such as emotions etc. But it is good to recognise your mistkaes, and have the desire to fix them, or learn from them, because the fact that we are all alive now is amazing. Jesus new that it would be tought for us and he warned us to be prepared, so never be afraid, because all we need to do now is simply push forwards, and fight. Even the saints struggled witht the same things as us, notice that in their stories it tends to say that they struggled to heaven. Everybody has their weaknesses and obstacles to fight against, never forget that. I know it is so hard, all I use to have in my head were just bad, dirty sexual thoughts. I don't need to say why because know matter what, I did have the choice to say NO!!! to these thoughts, but I didn't which is why I do feel quite ashamed, but I have a learnt that this won't help, if I really have the will be rid of these thoughts, I must act. I am a girl, who also struggles with the same thing. I am also quite young, just 16 years of age. When I look now, and into the future, I see myself corrupt, and weak for surrending myself to such thoughts. But I have also learnt that it won’t end there. There must be a reason, why God has still kept me alive, after all we can die anytime, as time is unkown in the future, it is not set in stone. So from taking this is, I was able to understand, that God is calling me to him, away from corruptness, I will definitely be able to conquer anything with him on my side. I refuse to make an excuse for my actions, no matter what past I may have had, because I am mad, because I knew God so well, and he was protecting me, but I rejected this, and gave myself up to these thoughts. It is all about will power, sure it is not simple take it from me a weak person, but strong with God. This is but a journey. I know that this is something I shall conquer, because the battle is not for me to be rid of these thoughts becuase it doesn’t feel right, but the battle is for me to make sure nothing comes in between my self and my relationship with God. The least I can do with my life is follow him, and give him the chance to get to me. Sure I’d love to have my own family one day, and many other things. But I know that all I should do is focus on my relationship with my heavenly Father Jesus Christ, because it is all in his hands, that is why we all get these thoughts, because we forget to rely on God. Sometimes, these thoughts come also, because we simply go astray when bad things happen to us, or simply are just tempted. BUT NEVER SHOULD WE FEEL ASHAMED OF OURSLVLES EVER, NEITHER SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY. This is because we are created in God’s image. We are his children, don’t forget that, know matter what age or gender we are all his children. Guilt is not good, because that is what brings us down not only in just surrending to these bad thoughts, but also we fall in many other things such as emotions etc. But it is good to recognise your mistkaes, and have the desire to fix them, or learn from them, because the fact that we are all alive now is amazing. Jesus new that it would be tought for us and he warned us to be prepared, so never be afraid, because all we need to do now is simply push forwards, and fight. Even the saints struggled witht the same things as us, notice that in their stories it tends to say that they struggled to heaven. Everybody has their weaknesses and obstacles to fight against, never forget that. I know it is so hard, all I use to have in my head were just bad, dirty sexual thoughts. I don’t need to say why because know matter what, I did have the choice to say NO!!! to these thoughts, but I didn’t which is why I do feel quite ashamed, but I have a learnt that this won’t help, if I really have the will be rid of these thoughts, I must act.

]]> By: Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30050 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:52:03 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30050 i am having a really hard time, it seems every time i go on the computer i find myself searching up bad pics, i will ask god to help me because i cant do it alone, i read that if you preoccupy your mind with like hockey or some hobbies it helps, but whenever i am on the computer i just cant stop myself i feel so ashamed and guilty i am having a really hard time, it seems every time i go on the computer i find myself searching up bad pics, i will ask god to help me because i cant do it alone, i read that if you preoccupy your mind with like hockey or some hobbies it helps, but whenever i am on the computer i just cant stop myself i feel so ashamed and guilty

]]> By: Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30049 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:48:53 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30049 i keep going back to look at bad pictures whenever i go on the computer and i just cant stop myself i will try to do what you said worked but i am having a really hard time :( i feel so ashamed and guilty right now :( i will say this though it feels good that i am not the only one battling porn i keep going back to look at bad pictures whenever i go on the computer and i just cant stop myself i will try to do what you said worked but i am having a really hard time :( i feel so ashamed and guilty right now :( i will say this though it feels good that i am not the only one battling porn

]]> By: Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30048 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:45:21 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30048 i keep going back to porn, i cant stop i dont want to look at those pictures but whenever i go on the computer i just do :( i will work hard and try to follow the steps you outlined but i am just having a hard time :( i feel so ashamed i keep going back to porn, i cant stop i dont want to look at those pictures but whenever i go on the computer i just do :( i will work hard and try to follow the steps you outlined but i am just having a hard time :( i feel so ashamed

]]> By: Vuyisa Mfobo http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30014 Vuyisa Mfobo Sat, 12 Feb 2011 10:31:00 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30014 Hi Jonathan I also have the same problem, I've managed to overcome all other natural desires but struggling with this one. I can't spread God's Gospel if I cant break away from this, I need your prayers and in Christ name we shall defeat the enemy. Hi Jonathan

I also have the same problem, I’ve managed to overcome all other natural desires but struggling with this one. I can’t spread God’s Gospel if I cant break away from this, I need your prayers and in Christ name we shall defeat the enemy.

]]> By: Vuyisa Mfobo http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30013 Vuyisa Mfobo Sat, 12 Feb 2011 10:24:42 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30013 Its my first time checking your site and I must say, its powerful. I have struggle with porn for years and its about time that I stop. Its good to know that I'm not the only one having this problem and I got motivated by people's comments. I got Born Again and I've managed to overcome all other sinful ways but am struggling with this one. From now on I'm going to view this site every time I'm on the net to keep going. Thanks Its my first time checking your site and I must say, its powerful. I have struggle with porn for years and its about time that I stop. Its good to know that I’m not the only one having this problem and I got motivated by people’s comments. I got Born Again and I’ve managed to overcome all other sinful ways but am struggling with this one. From now on I’m going to view this site every time I’m on the net to keep going. Thanks

]]> By: Rajverma http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-29968 Rajverma Wed, 19 Jan 2011 10:36:11 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-29968 Oh its nice to read your article of self control of our mind in situations that seems hard to control at times. But the counsel applies where women are far away from our proximity.Besides, there always a question on my mind that why is sex more addictive to any other like cigarette, alcohol etc,. Nevertheless, we are men and get fantasize and seduced to women bodies whenever we come in touch or come across with female especially in work place, so plz let me know how to control my lascivious thoughts in these times. Oh its nice to read your article of self control of our mind in situations that seems hard to control at times. But the counsel applies where women are far away from our proximity.Besides, there always a question on my mind that why is sex more addictive to any other like cigarette, alcohol etc,. Nevertheless, we are men and get fantasize and seduced to women bodies whenever we come in touch or come across with female especially in work place, so plz let me know how to control my lascivious thoughts in these times.

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