Comments on: How to Erase all Sexual Thoughts http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/ Wed, 23 Mar 2011 07:57:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: daughter of Christ http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30067 daughter of Christ Sat, 19 Mar 2011 09:31:33 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30067 I am a girl, who also struggles with the same thing. I am also quite young, just 16 years of age. When I look now, and into the future, I see myself corrupt, and weak for surrending myself to such thoughts. But I have also learnt that it won't end there. There must be a reason, why God has still kept me alive, after all we can die anytime, as time is unkown in the future, it is not set in stone. So from taking this is, I was able to understand, that God is calling me to him, away from corruptness, I will definitely be able to conquer anything with him on my side. I refuse to make an excuse for my actions, no matter what past I may have had, because I am mad, because I knew God so well, and he was protecting me, but I rejected this, and gave myself up to these thoughts. It is all about will power, sure it is not simple take it from me a weak person, but strong with God. This is but a journey. I know that this is something I shall conquer, because the battle is not for me to be rid of these thoughts becuase it doesn't feel right, but the battle is for me to make sure nothing comes in between my self and my relationship with God. The least I can do with my life is follow him, and give him the chance to get to me. Sure I'd love to have my own family one day, and many other things. But I know that all I should do is focus on my relationship with my heavenly Father Jesus Christ, because it is all in his hands, that is why we all get these thoughts, because we forget to rely on God. Sometimes, these thoughts come also, because we simply go astray when bad things happen to us, or simply are just tempted. BUT NEVER SHOULD WE FEEL ASHAMED OF OURSLVLES EVER, NEITHER SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY. This is because we are created in God's image. We are his children, don't forget that, know matter what age or gender we are all his children. Guilt is not good, because that is what brings us down not only in just surrending to these bad thoughts, but also we fall in many other things such as emotions etc. But it is good to recognise your mistkaes, and have the desire to fix them, or learn from them, because the fact that we are all alive now is amazing. Jesus new that it would be tought for us and he warned us to be prepared, so never be afraid, because all we need to do now is simply push forwards, and fight. Even the saints struggled witht the same things as us, notice that in their stories it tends to say that they struggled to heaven. Everybody has their weaknesses and obstacles to fight against, never forget that. I know it is so hard, all I use to have in my head were just bad, dirty sexual thoughts. I don't need to say why because know matter what, I did have the choice to say NO!!! to these thoughts, but I didn't which is why I do feel quite ashamed, but I have a learnt that this won't help, if I really have the will be rid of these thoughts, I must act. I am a girl, who also struggles with the same thing. I am also quite young, just 16 years of age. When I look now, and into the future, I see myself corrupt, and weak for surrending myself to such thoughts. But I have also learnt that it won’t end there. There must be a reason, why God has still kept me alive, after all we can die anytime, as time is unkown in the future, it is not set in stone. So from taking this is, I was able to understand, that God is calling me to him, away from corruptness, I will definitely be able to conquer anything with him on my side. I refuse to make an excuse for my actions, no matter what past I may have had, because I am mad, because I knew God so well, and he was protecting me, but I rejected this, and gave myself up to these thoughts. It is all about will power, sure it is not simple take it from me a weak person, but strong with God. This is but a journey. I know that this is something I shall conquer, because the battle is not for me to be rid of these thoughts becuase it doesn’t feel right, but the battle is for me to make sure nothing comes in between my self and my relationship with God. The least I can do with my life is follow him, and give him the chance to get to me. Sure I’d love to have my own family one day, and many other things. But I know that all I should do is focus on my relationship with my heavenly Father Jesus Christ, because it is all in his hands, that is why we all get these thoughts, because we forget to rely on God. Sometimes, these thoughts come also, because we simply go astray when bad things happen to us, or simply are just tempted. BUT NEVER SHOULD WE FEEL ASHAMED OF OURSLVLES EVER, NEITHER SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY. This is because we are created in God’s image. We are his children, don’t forget that, know matter what age or gender we are all his children. Guilt is not good, because that is what brings us down not only in just surrending to these bad thoughts, but also we fall in many other things such as emotions etc. But it is good to recognise your mistkaes, and have the desire to fix them, or learn from them, because the fact that we are all alive now is amazing. Jesus new that it would be tought for us and he warned us to be prepared, so never be afraid, because all we need to do now is simply push forwards, and fight. Even the saints struggled witht the same things as us, notice that in their stories it tends to say that they struggled to heaven. Everybody has their weaknesses and obstacles to fight against, never forget that. I know it is so hard, all I use to have in my head were just bad, dirty sexual thoughts. I don’t need to say why because know matter what, I did have the choice to say NO!!! to these thoughts, but I didn’t which is why I do feel quite ashamed, but I have a learnt that this won’t help, if I really have the will be rid of these thoughts, I must act.

]]> By: Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30050 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:52:03 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30050 i am having a really hard time, it seems every time i go on the computer i find myself searching up bad pics, i will ask god to help me because i cant do it alone, i read that if you preoccupy your mind with like hockey or some hobbies it helps, but whenever i am on the computer i just cant stop myself i feel so ashamed and guilty i am having a really hard time, it seems every time i go on the computer i find myself searching up bad pics, i will ask god to help me because i cant do it alone, i read that if you preoccupy your mind with like hockey or some hobbies it helps, but whenever i am on the computer i just cant stop myself i feel so ashamed and guilty

]]> By: Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30049 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:48:53 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30049 i keep going back to look at bad pictures whenever i go on the computer and i just cant stop myself i will try to do what you said worked but i am having a really hard time :( i feel so ashamed and guilty right now :( i will say this though it feels good that i am not the only one battling porn i keep going back to look at bad pictures whenever i go on the computer and i just cant stop myself i will try to do what you said worked but i am having a really hard time :( i feel so ashamed and guilty right now :( i will say this though it feels good that i am not the only one battling porn

]]> By: Jared http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30048 Jared Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:45:21 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30048 i keep going back to porn, i cant stop i dont want to look at those pictures but whenever i go on the computer i just do :( i will work hard and try to follow the steps you outlined but i am just having a hard time :( i feel so ashamed i keep going back to porn, i cant stop i dont want to look at those pictures but whenever i go on the computer i just do :( i will work hard and try to follow the steps you outlined but i am just having a hard time :( i feel so ashamed

]]> By: Vuyisa Mfobo http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30014 Vuyisa Mfobo Sat, 12 Feb 2011 10:31:00 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30014 Hi Jonathan I also have the same problem, I've managed to overcome all other natural desires but struggling with this one. I can't spread God's Gospel if I cant break away from this, I need your prayers and in Christ name we shall defeat the enemy. Hi Jonathan

I also have the same problem, I’ve managed to overcome all other natural desires but struggling with this one. I can’t spread God’s Gospel if I cant break away from this, I need your prayers and in Christ name we shall defeat the enemy.

]]> By: Vuyisa Mfobo http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-30013 Vuyisa Mfobo Sat, 12 Feb 2011 10:24:42 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-30013 Its my first time checking your site and I must say, its powerful. I have struggle with porn for years and its about time that I stop. Its good to know that I'm not the only one having this problem and I got motivated by people's comments. I got Born Again and I've managed to overcome all other sinful ways but am struggling with this one. From now on I'm going to view this site every time I'm on the net to keep going. Thanks Its my first time checking your site and I must say, its powerful. I have struggle with porn for years and its about time that I stop. Its good to know that I’m not the only one having this problem and I got motivated by people’s comments. I got Born Again and I’ve managed to overcome all other sinful ways but am struggling with this one. From now on I’m going to view this site every time I’m on the net to keep going. Thanks

]]> By: Rajverma http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-29968 Rajverma Wed, 19 Jan 2011 10:36:11 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-29968 Oh its nice to read your article of self control of our mind in situations that seems hard to control at times. But the counsel applies where women are far away from our proximity.Besides, there always a question on my mind that why is sex more addictive to any other like cigarette, alcohol etc,. Nevertheless, we are men and get fantasize and seduced to women bodies whenever we come in touch or come across with female especially in work place, so plz let me know how to control my lascivious thoughts in these times. Oh its nice to read your article of self control of our mind in situations that seems hard to control at times. But the counsel applies where women are far away from our proximity.Besides, there always a question on my mind that why is sex more addictive to any other like cigarette, alcohol etc,. Nevertheless, we are men and get fantasize and seduced to women bodies whenever we come in touch or come across with female especially in work place, so plz let me know how to control my lascivious thoughts in these times.

]]> By: overcome http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-29503 overcome Sat, 26 Jun 2010 02:37:20 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-29503 i have a problem i would like some help, i used to watch anime , but i left that , the problem is i watched all kind of animes even ecchi and hentai, and now i feel like watching some non nudes hentai scenes , and when that happens i get some sexual pleasure and orgams , im a little vouyerist , so i hope this thing works , i have a problem i would like some help, i used to watch anime , but i left that , the problem is i watched all kind of animes even ecchi and hentai, and now i feel like watching some non nudes hentai scenes , and when that happens i get some sexual pleasure and orgams , im a little vouyerist , so i hope this thing works ,

]]> By: someone http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-29154 someone Sat, 12 Dec 2009 08:38:38 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-29154 its strong in the mind it controls the body its the masterbation then the thinking and then the action and where it starts when your alone , you seem that you cant control it , and it gets harder and harder to resist i try praying so it will go away but the tempter the spirit of the air trows darts at us in this area , some people it will be drugs, drinking, gambling, but im there with you all its a struggle keep me in your prayers im trying deep down in my heart to stop these actions cause we can hurt other people to wheater gay or bi or straight, gby its strong in the mind it controls the body its the masterbation then the thinking and then the action and where it starts when your alone , you seem that you cant control it , and it gets harder and harder to resist i try praying so it will go away but the tempter the spirit of the air trows darts at us in this area , some people it will be drugs, drinking, gambling, but im there with you all its a struggle keep me in your prayers im trying deep down in my heart to stop these actions cause we can hurt other people to wheater gay or bi or straight, gby

]]> By: Anonymous http://newlifehabits.com/2008/07/19/how-to-erase-all-sexual-thoughts/comment-page-1/#comment-28850 Anonymous Sat, 05 Sep 2009 05:11:01 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/?p=72#comment-28850 God never throws anything at you that you cant handle. Overcoming the addiction will strengthen your willpower to more than it ever has been. God never throws anything at you that you cant handle. Overcoming the addiction will strengthen your willpower to more than it ever has been.

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