Comments on: Porn Addiction Help http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/ Wed, 23 Mar 2011 07:57:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Edin http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-30044 Edin Tue, 01 Mar 2011 07:54:50 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-30044 Sharon, I had the same problem like your husband. Here are some sites that could be very helpful to him: narth.com peoplecanchange.com gaytostraight.org thetruthsetsyoufree.wordpress.com Sharon, I had the same problem like your husband. Here are some sites that could be very helpful to him:
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]]> By: sharon slauson http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29986 sharon slauson Thu, 27 Jan 2011 17:17:38 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-29986 I need referral for my husband who I just found out after 22 years of marriage has been not only looking at porn sites, but gay men sites. I am at a loss, and need help. We live in bakersfield ca I need referral for my husband who I just found out after 22 years of marriage has been not only looking at porn sites, but gay men sites. I am at a loss, and need help. We live in bakersfield ca

]]> By: Anon Omis http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29498 Anon Omis Thu, 24 Jun 2010 07:32:26 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-29498 Necia Astudillo, I hope that you read this. I'm a 21 year old guy and I've been looking at porn for about 7 or 8 years. I'm sick of it. I want to stop so bad but I always convince myself that it's ok. When I was younger I didn't think anything of it. But as I've grown older and been in relationships It's become more of a problem. I have a wonderful girlfriend and we've been together for almost 3 years now. I told her a long time ago that I looked at porn and she wanted me to stop. I slipped up and she saw the history on my computer. Anyway, the longest that I haven't gone without looking was one month. I've been lying to her for the past year and a half. I'm pretty sure she thinks that I don't look anymore but I do and I feel horrible after everytime. I would love to hear a response back from you to maybe better understand how it feels on your end. Thank you so much. Necia Astudillo,

I hope that you read this. I’m a 21 year old guy and I’ve been looking at porn for about 7 or 8 years. I’m sick of it. I want to stop so bad but I always convince myself that it’s ok. When I was younger I didn’t think anything of it. But as I’ve grown older and been in relationships It’s become more of a problem. I have a wonderful girlfriend and we’ve been together for almost 3 years now. I told her a long time ago that I looked at porn and she wanted me to stop. I slipped up and she saw the history on my computer. Anyway, the longest that I haven’t gone without looking was one month. I’ve been lying to her for the past year and a half. I’m pretty sure she thinks that I don’t look anymore but I do and I feel horrible after everytime. I would love to hear a response back from you to maybe better understand how it feels on your end. Thank you so much.

]]> By: Necia astudillo http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29292 Necia astudillo Fri, 12 Feb 2010 05:37:09 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-29292 I feel everyones pain in here. I have been married to my husband for three years now and I knew nothing about his masterbation and porn addiction till the day after we were married because I caught him in the act, yes that's right in the act. I felt like my heart was about to come out my throat. I just couldn't believe it at all. I felt like I was not enough for him then eventually my self-esteem went down and still to this day I'm am struggling to pick myself up. well the first time I caught him he did not tell me he had a problem until I caught him several times he finally admitted to me he has had this problem since he was 7 yrs old he is now 28. I was so hurt because I could not turn back and get divorced. I was stuck with him because I have no family to run to. So I'm here now trying to get help for him before it really tears our marriage apart If anyone can please tell me where I can get help in Bakersfield California it would be of help I feel everyones pain in here. I have been married to my husband for three years now and I knew nothing about his masterbation and porn addiction till the day after we were married because I caught him in the act, yes that’s right in the act. I felt like my heart was about to come out my throat. I just couldn’t believe it at all. I felt like I was not enough for him then eventually my self-esteem went down and still to this day I’m am struggling to pick myself up. well the first time I caught him he did not tell me he had a problem until I caught him several times he finally admitted to me he has had this problem since he was 7 yrs old he is now 28. I was so hurt because I could not turn back and get divorced. I was stuck with him because I have no family to run to. So I’m here now trying to get help for him before it really tears our marriage apart If anyone can please tell me where I can get help in Bakersfield California it would be of help

]]> By: Jake Watkins http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-28921 Jake Watkins Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:30:21 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-28921 i need help i cant stop wanting to watch porn i know God hates it and i know it hurts him that i do but its just so hard. I have a sweet awesome christan girlfriend that i love very much and i know it will hurt her if she known i don't know what to do. i read my bible and pray to God for help. im just tired of keep doing it. i need help i cant stop wanting to watch porn i know God hates it and i know it hurts him that i do but its just so hard. I have a sweet awesome christan girlfriend that i love very much and i know it will hurt her if she known i don’t know what to do. i read my bible and pray to God for help. im just tired of keep doing it.

]]> By: James http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-28671 James Wed, 15 Jul 2009 20:54:58 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-28671 I've been an addict since I was about 15 and I'm now 36. I've found that if I want to stop my addiction, or if I want to stop letting my addiction control me, I have turned to a little psychological trick. I have to erase like a computer Hard Drive all the images that make me feel like I need to see more. I mentally burn the images in my mind and I find it much harder to remember them later. Also, I think its better to avoid porn sites all together because anything can and does trigger another slip into the same vicious cycle. I’ve been an addict since I was about 15 and I’m now 36. I’ve found that if I want to stop my addiction, or if I want to stop letting my addiction control me, I have turned to a little psychological trick. I have to erase like a computer Hard Drive all the images that make me feel like I need to see more. I mentally burn the images in my mind and I find it much harder to remember them later. Also, I think its better to avoid porn sites all together because anything can and does trigger another slip into the same vicious cycle.

]]> By: robin minnies http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-28632 robin minnies Sat, 27 Jun 2009 00:24:08 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-28632 Hi Melissa, I hope your fiance can work through this. My relationship ended after five years. I learned that I could not change his pull to pornography and unfortunatley nor could he. It is great he wants to move toward change. Robin Hi Melissa,

I hope your fiance can work through this. My relationship ended after five years. I learned that I could not change his pull to pornography and unfortunatley nor could he. It is great he wants to move toward change.
Robin

]]> By: Moe http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-28549 Moe Sun, 24 May 2009 13:25:31 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-28549 Hi I would like thank you for this site it is opening my eyes for the frist time in my life Hi

I would like thank you for this site it is opening my eyes for the frist time in my life

]]> By: melissa http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/comment-page-1/#comment-28279 melissa Mon, 23 Feb 2009 14:22:34 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2008/02/08/porn-addiction-help/#comment-28279 please give me a referral for a therapist that specializes in this porn addiction, my fiance' just told me he is addicted...and he is...I have caught him many,many times. He said he has been doing it since 16 and he is 31. This has basically ruined our relationship. But we cannot find someone in the area for him to go to....what are we suppose to do...we can't ask anyone. We live outside cleveland, ohio and he would travel about 25 miles to see one. I believe he needs to go at least once a week. he said he wants to do this. please help. I need a Therapist. Melissa please give me a referral for a therapist that specializes in this porn addiction, my fiance’ just told me he is addicted…and he is…I have caught him many,many times. He said he has been doing it since 16 and he is 31. This has basically ruined our relationship. But we cannot find someone in the area for him to go to….what are we suppose to do…we can’t ask anyone. We live outside cleveland, ohio and he would travel about 25 miles to see one. I believe he needs to go at least once a week. he said he wants to do this. please help. I need a Therapist.
Melissa

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