Comments on: Using Prisoner of War Methods to Deal with Lonliness and Addiction Captivity http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/13/using-prisoner-of-war-methods-to-cope-with-addiction-captivity/ Fri, 21 Nov 2008 05:54:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: suffian http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/13/using-prisoner-of-war-methods-to-cope-with-addiction-captivity/#comment-132 suffian Fri, 01 Feb 2008 08:29:19 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/13/using-prisoner-of-war-methods-to-cope-with-addiction-captivity/#comment-132 This is the best advice i have ever received, esp the part "Reject False Logic - It is false logic to think that survival is contingent upon compliance with captors". meaning (in my opinion) thinking that masturbation will help you not make it worse, yes it helps reduce stress for a while but its eating u up psychologically, impelling your soul, the essence of our identity (feeling helpless, ashamed, disgusted, not knowing where u fit in with good and "evil" all in all reduced self esteem and reduced self image) This psychological pain experienced through masturbation causes to masturbate again to reduce this bottomless feeling, and therefore proving the point that its false logic since your goal is to be free and masturbation just gives u a false sense of freedom and release you for a short while, and then it gets u back, a (vicious cycle) conclusively. Its illogical thinking masturbation helps stress it compounds it till it makes u think your nothing without it, your just a self indulgent piece of flesh, the product of physical pleasure. The analogy to this is, think of a person attached to a post with a rubber band, now think of the rubber band as "masturbation as an entity" and the post as the "center of ur captivity"( the reason ur not free to live life and act and think without masturbation) the rubber band (masturbation), lets u wonder for a while (not masturbating for a while) and u think that ur free, you think that the captors have given ur freedom, given back ur identity ur soul...., till the elastic band wont stretch anymore, it grims, ur confused you thought masturbation was good it helped ur freedom, it deceived you, masturbation takes a hold over you...u masturbate, take ur frustration out rebel, and the rubber band forces, plunges, drags, kidnaps u back in captivity, IN DESOLATION, where we cry for a little while... then we wonder again thinking it might let us go this time it might not have a hold on me this time..... YOU WILL NEVER BE FREE UNLESS U "Learn to tolerate discomfort. Remain focused on tasks at hand." stay in that area where the rubber band is the strongest where u will need the most strength the will power the self conviction and break through once u broken the rubber band ur free for forever..... Maybe we should think of other things that reduce stress and make friends with them,masturbation isn't the only way to reduce stress... This is the best advice i have ever received, esp the part
“Reject False Logic - It is false logic to think that survival is contingent upon compliance with captors”.
meaning (in my opinion) thinking that masturbation will help you not make it worse, yes it helps reduce stress for a while but its eating u up psychologically, impelling your soul, the essence of our identity (feeling helpless, ashamed, disgusted, not knowing where u fit in with good and “evil” all in all reduced self esteem and reduced self image)
This psychological pain experienced through masturbation causes to masturbate again to reduce this bottomless feeling, and therefore proving the point that its false logic since your goal is to be free and masturbation just gives u a false sense of freedom and release you for a short while, and then it gets u back, a (vicious cycle) conclusively. Its illogical thinking masturbation helps stress it compounds it till it makes u think your nothing without it, your just a self indulgent piece of flesh, the product of physical pleasure.
The analogy to this is, think of a person attached to a post with a rubber band,
now think of the rubber band as “masturbation as an entity” and the post as the “center of ur captivity”( the reason ur not free to live life and act and think without masturbation)
the rubber band (masturbation), lets u wonder for a while (not masturbating for a while) and u think that ur free, you think that the captors have given ur freedom, given back ur identity ur soul…., till the elastic band wont stretch anymore, it grims, ur confused you thought masturbation was good it helped ur freedom, it deceived you, masturbation takes a hold over you…u masturbate, take ur frustration out rebel, and the rubber band forces, plunges, drags, kidnaps u back in captivity, IN DESOLATION, where we cry for a little while… then we wonder again thinking it might let us go this time it might not have a hold on me this time…..
YOU WILL NEVER BE FREE UNLESS U “Learn to tolerate discomfort. Remain focused on tasks at hand.” stay in that area where the rubber band is the strongest where u will need the most strength the will power the self conviction and break through once u broken the rubber band ur free for forever…..

Maybe we should think of other things that reduce stress and make friends with them,masturbation isn’t the only way to reduce stress…

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