Comments on: How to Stop Masturbation Addiction http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/ Wed, 23 Mar 2011 07:57:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Matt http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30074 Matt Wed, 23 Mar 2011 07:57:44 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30074 Thank you so much for spending the time to write this article I am 15 and I have been masturbating for over 2 years, I have countlessly tried too drop the habit but it never worked, I always felt dissapointed with myself and sad that I couldn't stop, thank you also too all the amazing people that left comments, it helped me realize what I was doing to myself and that I am not alone. I am quiting today for good, thank you so much :) Thank you so much for spending the time to write this article I am 15 and I have been masturbating for over 2 years, I have countlessly tried too drop the habit but it never worked, I always felt dissapointed with myself and sad that I couldn’t stop, thank you also too all the amazing people that left comments, it helped me realize what I was doing to myself and that I am not alone. I am quiting today for good, thank you so much :)

]]> By: Chris http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30045 Chris Wed, 02 Mar 2011 16:38:52 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30045 Thank you so much for posting this. I'm an 18 year old who has struggled with this for 7 years and I'm getting sick of it. I have tried many ways to kick this habit and I've gotten close but always end up returning to its filth. This was very inspiring and told me a lot that I didn't know. It is also very comforting that I am not alone. Thank you all for posting your comments and good luck to all who are working towards this common goal we all have. Thank you! Thank you so much for posting this. I’m an 18 year old who has struggled with this for 7 years and I’m getting sick of it. I have tried many ways to kick this habit and I’ve gotten close but always end up returning to its filth. This was very inspiring and told me a lot that I didn’t know. It is also very comforting that I am not alone. Thank you all for posting your comments and good luck to all who are working towards this common goal we all have. Thank you!

]]> By: G.S.E http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-29985 G.S.E Thu, 27 Jan 2011 13:49:50 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29985 Thanks for the article i will try to refer to it as often as possible, i have been with both addiction from the age of 13 and i am now 22. I tried many time but i just cant stop, maybe for a month or so then i started lusting after beautiful girls ,watching porns and then start to masturbate. Many times i'm at school i am so tired it kept me from doing my school work alot of times. thank you again and i hope it works. Thanks for the article i will try to refer to it as often as possible, i have been with both addiction from the age of 13 and i am now 22. I tried many time but i just cant stop, maybe for a month or so then i started lusting after beautiful girls ,watching porns and then start to masturbate. Many times i’m at school i am so tired it kept me from doing my school work alot of times. thank you again and i hope it works.

]]> By: A.K.A http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-29862 A.K.A Thu, 18 Nov 2010 07:16:18 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29862 A million thanks to the one who wrote this article. I am very thankful that you wrote this article because most of us use masturbation to escape from reality, like me I masturbate and it's very very hard for me to stop it, after I masturbate I swear myself I won't do it again but sometimes there's this urge or somewhat we call temptations that I lost control and did this thing over and over again and I search the web to find an encouraging words that could enlightened me to stop this kind of thing and I've read this article and it inspired me a lot to change myself into a better me.... thank you also for the tips you have given. Once again thank you very much. A million thanks to the one who wrote this article.

I am very thankful that you wrote this article because most of us use masturbation to escape from reality, like me I masturbate and it’s very very hard for me to stop it, after I masturbate I swear myself I won’t do it again but sometimes there’s this urge or somewhat we call temptations that I lost control and did this thing over and over again and I search the web to find an encouraging words that could enlightened me to stop this kind of thing and I’ve read this article and it inspired me a lot to change myself into a better me….
thank you also for the tips you have given.

Once again thank you very much.

]]> By: A http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-3/#comment-29795 A Sun, 07 Nov 2010 16:25:35 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29795 Thanks to the author for this extremely helpful writeup. I have been suffering from masturbation addition since I was 12 starting out unintentionally by ejaculating after looking at some magazines. Its been 13 years since that day and I have tried giving up masturbation many times unsuccessfully ... Many a time I have been reassured by health columns saying that masturbation is healthy ... It is not so ... Its a spark that becomes a fire each act stroking the flame ... Reading this column and the comments beneath has given me new hope .... My advise to my friends would be to isolate the causes/situations that cause you to masturbate and cut them off from your life ... In my case its porn (movies, stories, pictures) ... blindly saying to yourself or pledging will not be any good ... strike at the root as the author says Thanks to the author for this extremely helpful writeup.
I have been suffering from masturbation addition since I was 12 starting out unintentionally by ejaculating after looking at some magazines. Its been 13 years since that day and I have tried giving up masturbation many times unsuccessfully … Many a time I have been reassured by health columns saying that masturbation is healthy … It is not so … Its a spark that becomes a fire each act stroking the flame … Reading this column and the comments beneath has given me new hope …. My advise to my friends would be to isolate the causes/situations that cause you to masturbate and cut them off from your life … In my case its porn (movies, stories, pictures) … blindly saying to yourself or pledging will not be any good … strike at the root as the author says

]]> By: Randy http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-3/#comment-29694 Randy Thu, 21 Oct 2010 11:06:07 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29694 Ive known ive been addicted to sex, porn and masterbation for along time. I just cant control it. That's how i know im addicted. I tell myself everyday im going to cut back, but when that feeling comes over me i just give in. Everytime i get online i just have to view porn. When i meet women i automatically have thoughts of sex with them. Im getting better with not trying to have sex with every women i meet, but it's hard and i tell myself that me masterbating and looking at porn will help me with that, but i know deep inside it's just contributing to my addiction. I just dont know what to do. I feel helpless. I want to say im strong enough to conquer it, but id be lying. Ive been addicted since i was about 14 and im 30 now. And yes, i feel ashamed of it and i dont want to be open about it. I make small comments about it to friends, but i laugh it off and plus they never take me seriously about it either. I did tell my ex about it. I think she knew i was being honest about it, but her and i arent together anymore, so the support from her isnt available. I would like to be open about it to my family, but im nervous to. Not because they want believe me, but because i have to say im addicted to sex. It's not like saying, hey, i have a drinking problem or i smoke too much weed. This is something so different. I just want to conquer this. I want to be strong enough to fight off the temptations. I want to get online without looking at porn. I want to go to bed without having to masterbate. I want to be able to be friends with women without thinking about having sex with them. Do you know the best place for me to start? I want to have control of myself. I dont even remember what it feels like to have control. I feel so lost. This has effected me more than i could ever describe. Ive known ive been addicted to sex, porn and masterbation for along time. I just cant control it. That’s how i know im addicted. I tell myself everyday im going to cut back, but when that feeling comes over me i just give in. Everytime i get online i just have to view porn. When i meet women i automatically have thoughts of sex with them. Im getting better with not trying to have sex with every women i meet, but it’s hard and i tell myself that me masterbating and looking at porn will help me with that, but i know deep inside it’s just contributing to my addiction. I just dont know what to do. I feel helpless. I want to say im strong enough to conquer it, but id be lying. Ive been addicted since i was about 14 and im 30 now. And yes, i feel ashamed of it and i dont want to be open about it. I make small comments about it to friends, but i laugh it off and plus they never take me seriously about it either. I did tell my ex about it. I think she knew i was being honest about it, but her and i arent together anymore, so the support from her isnt available. I would like to be open about it to my family, but im nervous to. Not because they want believe me, but because i have to say im addicted to sex. It’s not like saying, hey, i have a drinking problem or i smoke too much weed. This is something so different. I just want to conquer this. I want to be strong enough to fight off the temptations. I want to get online without looking at porn. I want to go to bed without having to masterbate. I want to be able to be friends with women without thinking about having sex with them. Do you know the best place for me to start? I want to have control of myself. I dont even remember what it feels like to have control. I feel so lost. This has effected me more than i could ever describe.

]]> By: David http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-3/#comment-29507 David Fri, 02 Jul 2010 20:23:55 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29507 Thank You so much! I have been addicted for 2 1/2 years. I just want to thank you for this article Thank You so much! I have been addicted for 2 1/2 years. I just want to thank you for this article

]]> By: Parker http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-3/#comment-29308 Parker Sun, 28 Feb 2010 10:18:13 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29308 Hi, I've had a masterbation addiction for five years now, and the longest sobriety period I've ever had was 4 months. For all these years it has been a secret, and I continued to live a wicked life. Then three years ago I learned that it was a sin, and ever since then I have tried to stop by myself. Today is the first day that I actually looked on a website to help me with this problem. I'm only 15 years old and my life is a slave to an addiction, but with the help of the Lord, I can beat this. Thank you to the writer, because you have helped me, Truly. Im going to start TODAY! I FEEL SO FREE, I JUST TO WANT SHOUT! IM FINALLY GOING TO SAVED!!! Hi,
I’ve had a masterbation addiction for five years now, and the longest sobriety period I’ve ever had was 4 months.
For all these years it has been a secret, and I continued to live a wicked life. Then three years ago I learned that it was a sin, and ever since then I have tried to stop by myself. Today is the first day that I actually looked on a website to help me with this problem. I’m only 15 years old and my life is a slave to an addiction, but with the help of the Lord, I can beat this. Thank you to the writer, because you have helped me, Truly. Im going to start TODAY! I FEEL SO FREE, I JUST TO WANT SHOUT! IM FINALLY GOING TO SAVED!!!

]]> By: Larry http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-3/#comment-29266 Larry Wed, 27 Jan 2010 03:39:20 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29266 I'm a 42 year old masturbation addict. I've been doing it since my early teens. Always had lustful thoughts of girls since a young age. In my late teens, I was very promiscuous so didn't need to masturbate, but by my mid 20's, I stopped dating and got involved with viewing porn. It's now been 20 years or so without a serious relationship and minimal contact with girls. I truly believed masturbation was harmless and a healthy way to release. I now know this is a lie, as I've recently tried to be intimate with a few different girls, and couldn't even get hard. Yet when I'm alone, it works fine. It's a if I've trained my mind into believing that intimacy is something you do alone, and not with partners. ...I'm scared, embarrassed and isolated. It has ruined my social life, confidence and physical/mental health. I don't know how to stop, but by finding this site, just knowing there are many people suffering just like me gives me hope and courage to want to change. I don't want to be alone anymore... To all the young men out there - Please stop and get help... This will destroy your life like it did mine. Larry I’m a 42 year old masturbation addict. I’ve been doing it since my early teens. Always had lustful thoughts of girls since a young age. In my late teens, I was very promiscuous so didn’t need to masturbate, but by my mid 20′s, I stopped dating and got involved with viewing porn. It’s now been 20 years or so without a serious relationship and minimal contact with girls. I truly believed masturbation was harmless and a healthy way to release. I now know this is a lie, as I’ve recently tried to be intimate with a few different girls, and couldn’t even get hard. Yet when I’m alone, it works fine.
It’s a if I’ve trained my mind into believing that intimacy is something you do alone, and not with partners. …I’m scared, embarrassed and isolated. It has ruined my social life, confidence and physical/mental health.
I don’t know how to stop, but by finding this site, just knowing there are many people suffering just like me gives me hope and courage to want to change. I don’t want to be alone anymore…
To all the young men out there – Please stop and get help… This will destroy your life like it did mine.

Larry

]]> By: Al http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-3/#comment-29257 Al Sun, 24 Jan 2010 05:21:24 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29257 I have suffored with this for about 3 Years and have tried to quit with little sucess i was masturbating at least 2 times a week and have onlybeen able to make it about two weeks tops but I have finally realized how to stop because of you thank you for all of your help and i have not only decided to quit but i am promising my God that i will. I belive if i follow your advice and have Gods help i can over come this horrindious sin thankyou. I have suffored with this for about 3 Years and have tried to quit with little sucess i was masturbating at least 2 times a week and have onlybeen able to make it about two weeks tops but I have finally realized how to stop because of you thank you for all of your help and i have not only decided to quit but i am promising my God that i will. I belive if i follow your advice and have Gods help i can over come this horrindious sin thankyou.

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