Comments on: How to Stop Masturbation Addiction http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/ Fri, 27 Apr 2012 20:54:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: spencer http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-1/#comment-30693 spencer Wed, 28 Mar 2012 17:26:43 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30693 i must say thank you. for six years i have masturbated every day! i know it was unhealthy but i had anxiety and was unable to make friends my whole life. i was alone yet i know that my actions were not an end but a mean that would never end. my whole life i have been addicted to pornography, since i was a small boy. i have tried to quite HUNDREDS of times and have always fallen. i got so low that i was masturbating in public because i couldn't control myself. i went as far as to spend hours hacking library moniters just to get a glips to masterbate to. as i have just done that know and in my depression and self loathing i finally sought out help knowing i can't do it alone. this sight has helped me understand that giving up is not an option, i can get over this and i will, before pornorgraphy my life was so happy, never nervouse, no gilty mind, productive life style, friends just being made. i sit here, alone, having acomplished little in my life when i know i could have gone far with what i was given. i hope to reply back in a few weeks. a stronger man with a purpose in life and a goal to be better and help others around me be better. thank you, thank you all for this. those of you struggling with me, DON'T GIVE UP. we can do this!!! god bless you. i must say thank you. for six years i have masturbated every day! i know it was unhealthy but i had anxiety and was unable to make friends my whole life. i was alone yet i know that my actions were not an end but a mean that would never end. my whole life i have been addicted to pornography, since i was a small boy. i have tried to quite HUNDREDS of times and have always fallen. i got so low that i was masturbating in public because i couldn’t control myself. i went as far as to spend hours hacking library moniters just to get a glips to masterbate to. as i have just done that know and in my depression and self loathing i finally sought out help knowing i can’t do it alone. this sight has helped me understand that giving up is not an option, i can get over this and i will, before pornorgraphy my life was so happy, never nervouse, no gilty mind, productive life style, friends just being made. i sit here, alone, having acomplished little in my life when i know i could have gone far with what i was given. i hope to reply back in a few weeks. a stronger man with a purpose in life and a goal to be better and help others around me be better. thank you, thank you all for this. those of you struggling with me, DON’T GIVE UP. we can do this!!!
god bless you.

]]> By: Mr x http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30650 Mr x Sun, 11 Mar 2012 15:03:51 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30650 Easy access to pornography on the internet, and lonely life, troubled marriage life, dependancy on sexual satisfaction through masturbation are some of the very common causes for creating problem even in married people around the globe, sex is a important factor in creating a strong bond in married life, if it is not there because of any reason then the cracks start coming up in the relationship, this is what happens if a husband or wife starts enjoying masturbation as a mean to satisfy sexual desire, then they do not feel to have actual sex with the parteners, emotionally unsupported relationship breaks easily, so advice is to avoid unnatural means to satisfy your sexual desire, its a wonderful site, nicely written article, and most important frank sharing of presonal experiences by the readers......you are all great help to the sufferer ....person in need... please continue sharing your valuable thought here instead make your spouse feel important Easy access to pornography on the internet, and lonely life, troubled marriage life, dependancy on sexual satisfaction through masturbation are some of the very common causes for creating problem even in married people around the globe, sex is a important factor in creating a strong bond in married life, if it is not there because of any reason then the cracks start coming up in the relationship, this is what happens if a husband or wife starts enjoying masturbation as a mean to satisfy sexual desire, then they do not feel to have actual sex with the parteners, emotionally unsupported relationship breaks easily, so advice is to avoid unnatural means to satisfy your sexual desire, its a wonderful site, nicely written article, and most important frank sharing of presonal experiences by the readers……you are all great help to the sufferer ….person in need… please continue sharing your valuable thought here
instead make your spouse feel important

]]> By: Aniket http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30641 Aniket Sun, 04 Mar 2012 08:46:46 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30641 Hi, Thanks for the suggestion. My reason for masturbation is feeling of having sex. When I feel to have sex, I masturbate so that I can control. Now I will try to narrow down and try to understand why I feel like having sex and you are correct, it happens to me when I go to bed and when I get this feeling of sex I don't get sleep at all until I masturbate. Once I had deleted all the porn videos from my machine but when I get the feeling, I desperately start searching for porn videos in Internet. And, when I watch the porn videos then nobody can stop me. I thank you very much and I will update you once I am successful. Hi, Thanks for the suggestion. My reason for masturbation is feeling of having sex. When I feel to have sex, I masturbate so that I can control. Now I will try to narrow down and try to understand why I feel like having sex and you are correct, it happens to me when I go to bed and when I get this feeling of sex I don’t get sleep at all until I masturbate.

Once I had deleted all the porn videos from my machine but when I get the feeling, I desperately start searching for porn videos in Internet. And, when I watch the porn videos then nobody can stop me.

I thank you very much and I will update you once I am successful.

]]> By: Connor http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30640 Connor Sat, 03 Mar 2012 18:39:09 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30640 The hardest part for me, is not only have I become deeply addicted to it, not only have grown to nearly hate it and find it so hard to forgive myself, but somehow, in the midst of all the shame, and dislike, and even pain, physically, mentally, and spiritually... somehow I've grown to love it. Not enjoy it... not want it... but actually love it, through all its flaws. And I think many people suffer from the same thing, whether they realize it or not. I'm terrified of moving on without it. As a Christian, it's my biggest draw back. It's like a really annoying sibling, or someone you fell in love with against all the odd. You know the flaws, you know the annoyances, you know the bad things about it, yet somehow, after putting it into your life for so long, somewhere along the way, you began to love it. I'm on my 7th day of stopping, and even though I have many supporters from my church, it literally feels like my body is slowly becoming more and more destroyed; unlike most people that I've known to stop, there times throughout each day that I am literally unable to move through the pain. And its not a pain a doctor can can, it's all phsycological, and only God can help me at this point. Thanks for making the ariticle, it's been a good help as well. The hardest part for me, is not only have I become deeply addicted to it, not only have grown to nearly hate it and find it so hard to forgive myself, but somehow, in the midst of all the shame, and dislike, and even pain, physically, mentally, and spiritually… somehow I’ve grown to love it. Not enjoy it… not want it… but actually love it, through all its flaws. And I think many people suffer from the same thing, whether they realize it or not. I’m terrified of moving on without it. As a Christian, it’s my biggest draw back. It’s like a really annoying sibling, or someone you fell in love with against all the odd. You know the flaws, you know the annoyances, you know the bad things about it, yet somehow, after putting it into your life for so long, somewhere along the way, you began to love it.
I’m on my 7th day of stopping, and even though I have many supporters from my church, it literally feels like my body is slowly becoming more and more destroyed; unlike most people that I’ve known to stop, there times throughout each day that I am literally unable to move through the pain. And its not a pain a doctor can can, it’s all phsycological, and only God can help me at this point.
Thanks for making the ariticle, it’s been a good help as well.

]]> By: Zidane Alfares http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30636 Zidane Alfares Fri, 02 Mar 2012 02:25:30 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30636 Hello everyone, I'm a 13 year old guy, I started masturbating since I was around the age of 5 or 6. I'm suffering from masturbation and porn addiction. I have recently stopped masturbating for 3 days. Before I stopped, I went and told my parents about it because I wanted to make sure if it's fine or not, if it's a part of growing up. My dad told me that it's not fine until marriage. He told me that it's a sin and I should immediately stop. I googled this subject and found Quran citations that told us that Muhammad (PBUH) said that masturbation is prohibited (I unfortunately forgot the citations I read.) Ever since I heard that it's a sin, I immediately stopped. I went and took a shower to cleansen myself up. Here's the problem: ever since I watch music videos that have girls that are almost named in them, my penis start to get hard. It also happens with my imagination. One of the things that made me forget about masturbating was playing FPS's on my PS3 because I can get focused on the game and forget about masturbation. My father said that when I lose control and want to masturbate, I have to fast because hunger makes you forget everything. I will fast and fight to stop my addiction. Thank you for this post, it helped me a lot! :) Hello everyone,

I’m a 13 year old guy, I started masturbating since I was around the age of 5 or 6. I’m suffering from masturbation and porn addiction. I have recently stopped masturbating for 3 days. Before I stopped, I went and told my parents about it because I wanted to make sure if it’s fine or not, if it’s a part of growing up. My dad told me that it’s not fine until marriage. He told me that it’s a sin and I should immediately stop. I googled this subject and found Quran citations that told us that Muhammad (PBUH) said that masturbation is prohibited (I unfortunately forgot the citations I read.) Ever since I heard that it’s a sin, I immediately stopped. I went and took a shower to cleansen myself up. Here’s the problem: ever since I watch music videos that have girls that are almost named in them, my penis start to get hard. It also happens with my imagination. One of the things that made me forget about masturbating was playing FPS’s on my PS3 because I can get focused on the game and forget about masturbation. My father said that when I lose control and want to masturbate, I have to fast because hunger makes you forget everything. I will fast and fight to stop my addiction. Thank you for this post, it helped me a lot! :)

]]> By: jacob http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30630 jacob Wed, 22 Feb 2012 09:45:03 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30630 This has been an on going battle of mine. I could never admit it to myself as I saw it as passing time. I, like many of you, started viewing porn from an early age, what begun as a silly past time, ended up as being a life long battle. I am now 25 years, and the feeling of disgust has became stronger than before. I do not have the answer on how to stop this, but I, like many of you here, will try my best to understand my mental and visual triggers. I am an ADDICT, and I can safely says, I have started to admit this to myself. In the past, I used to watch as much porn as I possibly, to try to dissencitise my self from porn. But that did not work, it instead made me hate myself more. I am now willing to teach myself how to out grow my habit but I know it is going to be an uphill battle. I am thankful to know that I am not alone, and that I will be trying to restore myself confidence back. My eyes have grown tired watching porn, my mind is troubled by the stored visual images of porn, my testicles are tired of the semen wasted on toilet seats. I now know that my trigger is loneliness and being dishonest to myself. Long have I tried and fallen of the band wagon, but now, no more. The answer lays with me and has always been there with me. I just chose not to listen to it. 15years of watching porn won't go away in a day, that I know, the difference now is, I am willing to take it one step at a time. To the person who started this Blog, thank you and thanks again to the community that has shared their embarrassing habits with the world. To those looking for answers on how to stop, first think of what made you start in the first place. Judging yourself also fuels the need to watch porn and to masturbate afterwards. I had this epiphany today. This has been an on going battle of mine. I could never admit it to myself as I saw it as passing time. I, like many of you, started viewing porn from an early age, what begun as a silly past time, ended up as being a life long battle.
I am now 25 years, and the feeling of disgust has became stronger than before.

I do not have the answer on how to stop this, but I, like many of you here, will try my best to understand my mental and visual triggers. I am an ADDICT, and I can safely says, I have started to admit this to myself.

In the past, I used to watch as much porn as I possibly, to try to dissencitise my self from porn. But that did not work, it instead made me hate myself more. I am now willing to teach myself how to out grow my habit but I know it is going to be an uphill battle.

I am thankful to know that I am not alone, and that I will be trying to restore myself confidence back. My eyes have grown tired watching porn, my mind is troubled by the stored visual images of porn, my testicles are tired of the semen wasted on toilet seats.
I now know that my trigger is loneliness and being dishonest to myself. Long have I tried and fallen of the band wagon, but now, no more. The answer lays with me and has always been there with me. I just chose not to listen to it. 15years of watching porn won’t go away in a day, that I know, the difference now is, I am willing to take it one step at a time.

To the person who started this Blog, thank you and thanks again to the community that has shared their embarrassing habits with the world.
To those looking for answers on how to stop, first think of what made you start in the first place.

Judging yourself also fuels the need to watch porn and to masturbate afterwards. I had this epiphany today.

]]> By: annonymous boy http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30629 annonymous boy Tue, 21 Feb 2012 15:14:54 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30629 Thank you so much I keep promissing myself that I am going to stop and then I fail and I hate it I am usually a strong person and never thought I would be weekend by any addiction but with your guidence I can try again with new ammo. time to go and change my clothes and wash.THANK YOU ! Thank you so much I keep promissing myself that I am going to stop and then I fail and I hate it I am usually a strong person and never thought I would be weekend by any addiction but with your guidence I can try again with new ammo. time to go and change my clothes and wash.THANK YOU !

]]> By: Matt http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30074 Matt Wed, 23 Mar 2011 07:57:44 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30074 Thank you so much for spending the time to write this article I am 15 and I have been masturbating for over 2 years, I have countlessly tried too drop the habit but it never worked, I always felt dissapointed with myself and sad that I couldn't stop, thank you also too all the amazing people that left comments, it helped me realize what I was doing to myself and that I am not alone. I am quiting today for good, thank you so much :) Thank you so much for spending the time to write this article I am 15 and I have been masturbating for over 2 years, I have countlessly tried too drop the habit but it never worked, I always felt dissapointed with myself and sad that I couldn’t stop, thank you also too all the amazing people that left comments, it helped me realize what I was doing to myself and that I am not alone. I am quiting today for good, thank you so much :)

]]> By: Chris http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-30045 Chris Wed, 02 Mar 2011 16:38:52 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-30045 Thank you so much for posting this. I'm an 18 year old who has struggled with this for 7 years and I'm getting sick of it. I have tried many ways to kick this habit and I've gotten close but always end up returning to its filth. This was very inspiring and told me a lot that I didn't know. It is also very comforting that I am not alone. Thank you all for posting your comments and good luck to all who are working towards this common goal we all have. Thank you! Thank you so much for posting this. I’m an 18 year old who has struggled with this for 7 years and I’m getting sick of it. I have tried many ways to kick this habit and I’ve gotten close but always end up returning to its filth. This was very inspiring and told me a lot that I didn’t know. It is also very comforting that I am not alone. Thank you all for posting your comments and good luck to all who are working towards this common goal we all have. Thank you!

]]> By: G.S.E http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/comment-page-4/#comment-29985 G.S.E Thu, 27 Jan 2011 13:49:50 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/#comment-29985 Thanks for the article i will try to refer to it as often as possible, i have been with both addiction from the age of 13 and i am now 22. I tried many time but i just cant stop, maybe for a month or so then i started lusting after beautiful girls ,watching porns and then start to masturbate. Many times i'm at school i am so tired it kept me from doing my school work alot of times. thank you again and i hope it works. Thanks for the article i will try to refer to it as often as possible, i have been with both addiction from the age of 13 and i am now 22. I tried many time but i just cant stop, maybe for a month or so then i started lusting after beautiful girls ,watching porns and then start to masturbate. Many times i’m at school i am so tired it kept me from doing my school work alot of times. thank you again and i hope it works.

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