http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/ Fri, 21 Nov 2008 03:03:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-15 exaddict Sat, 05 Jan 2008 19:20:53 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-15 I really believe that one needs to apply yourself and immerse yourself in matters that take your mind off the bad apple syndrome of being focussed on this rotten stuff. I have made a quality decision to stop the rot in my life as I enjoy my family more than the secrecy of internet porn and private masturbation I am so involved with. I believe that what has been posted on this website is truly valuable and vital to those wanting to make a concerted effort to be rid of this horrible stuff. I really believe that one needs to apply yourself and immerse yourself in matters that take your mind off the bad apple syndrome of being focussed on this rotten stuff. I have made a quality decision to stop the rot in my life as I enjoy my family more than the secrecy of internet porn and private masturbation I am so involved with. I believe that what has been posted on this website is truly valuable and vital to those wanting to make a concerted effort to be rid of this horrible stuff.

]]> http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-14 exaddict Sat, 05 Jan 2008 16:51:18 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-14 I have been struggling for far too long with this type of addiction which has also robbed me and my family of quality time together. My wife has had a major problem with chronic bipolar depression which has really left me quite alone a lot. I have also had too much time with my thoughts being left alone. I have been struggling for far too long with this type of addiction which has also robbed me and my family of quality time together. My wife has had a major problem with chronic bipolar depression which has really left me quite alone a lot. I have also had too much time with my thoughts being left alone.

]]> http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-16 enlightenedguy Tue, 18 Dec 2007 15:31:10 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-16 Your blog was quite motivating and a kind of eye opener to the facts that we already know but can remember at right time. Keep up the good work. Your blog was quite motivating and a kind of eye opener to the facts that we already know but can remember at right time. Keep up the good work.

]]> http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-12 You Better Learn to Enjoy Your New Life « NewLifeHabits.com Tue, 21 Aug 2007 06:22:02 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-12 [...] life better there is the temptation to doubt your success and worry that you will just fail soon. Stop! That is addiction trying to pull you back into addiction. You are in control as soon as you make [...] […] life better there is the temptation to doubt your success and worry that you will just fail soon. Stop! That is addiction trying to pull you back into addiction. You are in control as soon as you make […]

]]> http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-9 The Good and the Bad About Sexual Addict 12 Step Programs « NewLifeHabits.com Wed, 15 Aug 2007 10:56:32 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-9 [...] The last thing I had difficultly with was there seemed to be no exit strategy. It seemed to me that I was almost expected to attend these meetings for an undefined amount of time if I expected to remain sober. There was one guy, while being a great strength to the group, who was sober for almost two years I think and was still attending these meetings. However, while I was attending, he had a relapse. I couldn’t help but wonder if his continual attendance, despite his success, had caused this relapse. I believe that when a person gets to a point where they are sober and confident for say a couple months then they need to move on and live their life instead of continually dwelling on the worry that they may slip up again. Part of the problem with addiction is thinking too much about addiction. [...] […] The last thing I had difficultly with was there seemed to be no exit strategy. It seemed to me that I was almost expected to attend these meetings for an undefined amount of time if I expected to remain sober. There was one guy, while being a great strength to the group, who was sober for almost two years I think and was still attending these meetings. However, while I was attending, he had a relapse. I couldn’t help but wonder if his continual attendance, despite his success, had caused this relapse. I believe that when a person gets to a point where they are sober and confident for say a couple months then they need to move on and live their life instead of continually dwelling on the worry that they may slip up again. Part of the problem with addiction is thinking too much about addiction. […]

]]> http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-11 Are You Walking on Egg Shells? « NewLifeHabits.com Sun, 12 Aug 2007 10:19:15 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-11 [...] is an selfish animal. It wants you to think about it and nothing else. As long as it has your focus then it has a tight grip on you. Focusing on the things you’ve been neglecting or the daily [...] […] is an selfish animal. It wants you to think about it and nothing else. As long as it has your focus then it has a tight grip on you. Focusing on the things you’ve been neglecting or the daily […]

]]> http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-10 How to Stop Masturbation Addiction « NewLifeHabits.com Wed, 08 Aug 2007 09:37:02 +0000 http://newlifehabits.com/2007/07/30/whatever-controls-your-attention-controls-you/#comment-10 [...] conclusion I would say the most important thing you can do to overcome masturbation addiction is to control your thoughts. Learn to control your thoughts and you will be the master of your emotions and actions. Persevere [...] […] conclusion I would say the most important thing you can do to overcome masturbation addiction is to control your thoughts. Learn to control your thoughts and you will be the master of your emotions and actions. Persevere […]

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